Quote Originally Posted by playme
Not even going to get into what all the ex use to require me to do so excluding all that ----

after those days I'd say the one instance that stands out as more humilitating was one guy I served for a time had a thing about making me show myself to any one he wanted me to. His place was on one of the back holes of a private country club golf course. He'd put these hook thingies into the woodwork around back deck sliding window and oe of his kicks was to make me take off all my clothes and be tied spread edge to edge while he'd leave and run off to the store or what. When he'd get back he'd sit and have a drink or eat a snack and just sit and make me wait and squirm for a while before he'd eventually come over behind me where he couldn't be seen and take his sweet time having fun playing with my butt.
The house was a ways away from the green so I doubt the older players had good enough vision to truely know what they were seeing but a once in awhile the ball would overshoot the hole and more than one fellow who came after the ball get quite an eyeful and then some.
Now in my view something like this is not what I'd think would be
the focus or lynch pin that secures the bond between
D/s-Master/slave.

This sounds more like a one way situation to boost
the master's ego and possibly reaffirm his own image
in his mind and not really doing much justice in the true sense
of a D/s relationship.

I'm not saying you're anywhere at fault in this Playme, I just happen
to think your master was off the mark in what his overall aim was.

It doesn't sound like he was giving you much to feel good about
yourself in serving him and that has to be a part of things as well.

I believe there has to be a sense that although someone assumes
the sub role they also need to gain something in return and not be
there solely to validate a master's role in his mind or those who
might view his actions.

I stress this again that I'm not faulting Playme in this in anyway,
just an opinion that I think she didn't get what she sounded to
be worthy of receiving in a D/s-slave realtionship.

I'll even go so far as to say that this type of activity has its
merits and can be enjoyed by both provided both are receiving
some benefit from it and it's not done with solely the master
in mind.