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How can it be torment, if you've never had it? you have nothing to compare it to, and everything to look forward to!
Not everyone who is doing online is entirely a BDSM virgin when they start out online. There are many who have had physical relationships in the past and simply need to do *something* until they find someone willing to be their physical partner. Others travel frequently to visit their o/l partners. The seperation may not have been due to starting out in different cities. It could be that both parties have jobs but one job moves to a different city and so there is a period of seperation while the other one tries to find a new job to move to them. Its one of those things that couples often have to deal with in this modern day and the price we have to unfortunately pay for equality of genders.