Well here's another question for you BBW- do you think it makes sense to introduce someone new into a relationship that's not working too well?

Besides, if you had another Master who you could have sex with anytime, why would you need the first one?

It's times like this I'm reminded of the saying 'advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer but don't want to admit it' or however it goes.

I always say the same thing to people in any sort of relationship- you have to decide for yourself what's fair. Forget the 'rules' & sit down & work out the basics. You have to make your own rules, not live by someone else's.


The post by Blue_Monday was just brilliant BTW.


Tojo