Quote Originally Posted by Arria View Post
I think you being married is a big part of the reason nothing is happening.
Let me first say that I appreciate your being honest about it (that is more than SOME are...)

Nevertheless: If a sub is looking for a relationship that is going deeper than some play-only-level, you are not a potential candidate.
The simple reason for this: You are married. Meaning, you already have a "number one" woman in your life.

No sub I met was willing to be the second choice / little accessoire / whatever you may call it.

I, for certain, would not have wanted to be the second choice / the one with less priority than some other woman...

Just my 2 cents.
Arria, I will counter... that there are also married subs who would not wish to leave their spouses, their family, who would welcome the "safety" of a married dominant who is also otherwise happily married.

DomCt, That said, those subs (and doms) are even MORE careful about whom they might play with.

So the whole patience thing is paramount. It takes a lot of time to show you have something substantial to offer. Something that may not be permanent, but can certainly be long term.

So now... I'll be a bit harsh. This is what? Your third or fourth thread with this basic complaint? I know I've responded in at least one other of them... and if you are indeed "real" in your desires to make a lasting connection, then stop showing how impatient you are.

I think you would do yourself a real service to reread Kuskovian's response and maybe take it to heart.

Oh... one more thing. Get a real name and ask T to change yours... Even your name says you're only on the make... Dom from Connecticut. That's a description, not a name.