DomCt, I think that Ozme is right in that it might help your cause if you changed your name to make you seem more real and less of a stereotype. If I were an unowned sub I would be more inclined to chat with someone who didn't immediately advertize himself as a Dom like that. Ozme is right: your name just screams that you are a Dom on the make for a sub. That name doesn't tell us anything about yourself or your personality. I've always been interested in people's screen names and how they came up with them. That is an ice breaker right there.