BBW,

Sorry about the outcome but I think you will eventually come to see it was all for the best. As others have said, don't rush. It will happen, probably when you least expect it.

A very smart lady in this forum also told me about the collarme site. I checked it out but only with passing interest. You may find it more to your liking and you can check it out from your computer and not have to date anyone. Great advantage for the early stages of finding someone to fulfill your needs.

Good luck and keep us posted.