Quote Originally Posted by denuseri View Post
I can empathize 150% with the girls that are leary of a real life meet, (especially considering what happened as a result of my one and only real life meet with a very seductive evil vile monster and his so called sub, who was probabley another victum he enlisted to help trick me, I would never reccomend to anyone that they just casually hookup in real life with anyone from the internet male of female.

That being said i may be a bit tainted by my encounter, I have heard of several people meeting and luckely nothing bad has happennd to them, conversely i have heard of a very small, even fewer number of people that actually developed real life relationships with a online person, some of which have turned to long lasting truely wonderful coupleings of soulmates of the deepest bondage and love

probably just goes to prove that love online is just as rare and precious as in real life
My experiences with meeting people online (admittedly easier, being male and dominant), ran the gamut from a guy showing up for lunch, after pretending to be a woman, to meeting my wife of seven years -- with a lot of patience in between for the many, many hours of email exchanges and chats that went nowhere, the lunches that went no further and the meets for scenes that just didn't work out.

One thing I didn't find was what I'd call "excuses". I was simply upfront that I was ultimately looking to get to know someone before an actual meeting, that I wasn't at all interested in "cyber" and that the submissive could take as much time as she wanted in email, chat and on the phone before a meeting, or tell me to go away at any time.