*smiles* thanks. Psychologically I'm fairly sound I think, I'm one of the fortunate sort of people that can let things go pretty easily and not be bogged down by my own baggage. *shrugs* dunno, guess I'm lucky in that regard, coupled with the fact that my ordeals, while there have been a few, have never lasted very long because I got myself the hell out of the situations once I recognized them for what they were. So I'm mostly here to offer a sympathetic ear to anyone that wants someone to talk too, and to show people that, just because a person is big, tough, and Dominant, doesn't mean their immune to getting into these sorts of situations and it's alright to be/have been there and it's not something to be ashamed of.

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