Euryleia is right on target in my book on this boo
i have nothing against a little casual fun now and then, but when searching for the one dom you want for a lasting relationship patience is key, impulse buying with a car is ussually a mistake, finding the right man to submit too has got to be an even more involved procsess
if they wont respect your need for a little time first then they are not worth your
efforts boo
to answer this:
(Everyone I've talked to has told me that because I'm not willing to submit right away I'm not submissive, or can't handle it, or should try dating normally. This hurts because a solid bdsm relationship is something I really look forward to finding someday, but I understand myself and that I cannot submit to someone I don't respect completely and can't respect someone I don't know. I'm really frustrated because over time I've slowly come to believe that there isn't anyone out there who feels the same way about submission that I do, that's it's not something to be given lightly. I'm really posting this so that I can get a community opinion on whether I've just never found decent doms or if what I'm looking for isn't what this lifestyle provides.)
Sounds to me like you have been only talking to a bunch of trolls that wanna trick you into webcam sex or worse .....and as for submission, i dont advise yu just hand it out like its candy, a man has to earn the right of dominance, that which is so freely given is not often if ever appreciated, besides how will you know if he is strong enough to be your dom if you just knuckle down from the get go?
its one thing to be polite and or comp-liant it is another thing to submit to the strength of a real dominant, dont by the hype sis, thier is nothing wrong with your idea of only truely submitting to one that you know well and shall be in a relationship with
pm me if you have any questions or conserns boo, i am allways willing to help my fellow subbie sistas out