Thanks guys, so sweet. Aussiegirl, the feeling is mutual.

When I met lisa, she'd just been dumped by a fake Dom- (not a wannabee, a fake, he's since lost interest in the lifestyle & 'gone straight')

She has no job, & of course no money. One of the things I'm doing soon will be to send her $100 to teach her something about money. The rule is she's not allowed to spend it, except in a dire emergency.

lisa is not her real name, that's what I named her when she decided she was mine.

Things aren't always perfect between us- once I had to say 'easy girl' when she was being difficult. I love the way a gentle word can make her stop & think about her behaviour.

I'm a very lucky fellow.

Tojo