they have some great advice for ya there sis,

the only thing i might add is to get him a membership here persuade him to log in and explore the site( lots of blow jobs can be persuassive i am told) its just full of information and wicked ideas to help further your submission to him and be comfortable for both of you in the proccess

oh and mabey check out the being kajira thread in the submissives couch it covers love and bdsm in a D/s relationship boo

i hope yu find what you need, communication has been key during my 10 years as a submissive

best wishes and hugs with kissess

denuseri