Hello bambina,

I can assure you, from a Dominant side of things, that there are Dominants out in the web and in real life that would look to take control of a woman and not desire sex. I know for a fact, because I am one of them, that there are Dominants who like to be in control even if I don't always stay in control in My real life Master/slave relationship. There is a dance that happens within a Master/slave relationship, and that dance is a big joy for a lot of Dominants.

On the internet there are a lot of posers who come around looking to pray on women such as yourself, that want to loose control, but don't know what kind of man they want to loose control to. I am not writing this for any other reason then to say that you should indeed take it slow out here on the internet. You should be careful when reading emails, you shouldn't give out things like IM information easily, and you should listen to your instincts even if they aren't great everyone has a build in BS meter, listen to it.

From your post here, you seem like you have a good head on your shoulders, and it seems like there are quite a few subs here reaching out to you. That is a VERY good thing, the "subbie network" is a powerful tool which you should be taking advantage of. Asking questions and taking your time with things is probably the best advice that can be offered at this time. If you need/want any assistance with things, you can message or email me, and I will do my best to answer questions you might have.

Take care and Be Well,

Jaymin