Laura and Midnite: J and I are of course thinking about you and praying for you. It's always difficult to feel like you're being helpful from such a distance, but I promise that both of us are excellent prayers. God and J are tight man, best of friends so J's prayers count for double. I mean, heck, he asked for meaning in his life and got me, so if he prays for Midnite to have a speedy recovery just plan on him not also getting well but winning the lottery next week.
Love to you both.