Body Size & Shape

[bambina]

I'm actually with Arria on this one.

Are you just feeling self conscious about your own body because there are people out there who don't like the way you look? If you are having problems with the way you look, a hundred people saying that you look fine isn't going to make you feel any different. Perhaps you should seek support somewhere that specifically caters to people like you who look a certain way that is commonly considered as 'ugly' in todays day and age.

"The prejudice against fat seems to be deeply embedded in our society"

If you know this then why are you asking us such a question? Does our opinion really matter? We're only with you online. You have to 'live' with 'our society'. 100 people saying fat is okay doesn't hold a candle to the billions of people who says it's not. If you don't like the way you look either change it or get over it. This is a personal problem or yours and it's yours alone. I'm sorry but this kind of subject is the kind I cannot stand. It's best to keep neutral people out of it because no one likes hearing about how someone is having body image issues. You have to solve this problem on your own or with a support group. You shouldn't drag others into it.

[~Snake~]

Claire, *Big Hug*

You sound like you want and deserve the truth....so here goes!

Are you physically attracted to or repelled by a fat person?

Attracted to fat person: NO.
Repelled by fat person: Sometimes...but that's not there fault, it's my fault for forgetting... from time to time... that they have feeling too and may have
a reason for being the way they are.

Are you physically attracted to or repelled by a thin person?

Attracted to thin person: I used to think i was because that's what everyone told me was right....but No...not really....some thin women can be a bit obsessed with being thin....and yes...i know there is a name for it....but it don't mean i have to like it.

Repelled by thin person: NO.

What body type attracts you most?

I like natural women with curves in all the right places, not affair to go out without make-up on, happy in her skin, not scared to laugh out loud and joy to be with. Have you see any lately?....or are they all trying to look like the top models in the mags?

Thin want to be fatter, Fat want to be thinner, Tall want to be shorter, Short want to be taller, Brunette want to be Blond, Blond wants a Brain!!!!

I don't think anyone is happy in the skin anymore, everyone wants to change something, when the only thing they have to change.....is there attitude to themselves and others around them.

Be happy in your skin Claire.

love & hugs
Snake

[AdrianaAurora]

Thin want to be fatter, Fat want to be thinner, Tall want to be shorter, Short want to be taller, Brunette want to be Blond, Blond wants a Brain!!!!

That is so not funny, . Just because this blonde who wishes she is taller (and to have smaller boobs, since we are at it - because then her life would be perfect, ) has lower levels of eumelanin than some people means... .

[~Snake~]

^^^ See Claire..... ^^^^ no one is happy in their skin...
always trying to get into someone else! *WEG*