quick question: real life or online?

[Willsubmit2]

I'd suggest a munch.

Online has far more posers and wannabe's.
Meeting someone in real life whom introduces themselves online doesn't resolve the problem... but a munch usually has enough people who know who's real and who's not... in fact, the posers are quickly exposed and leave on their own accord within such groups.

I think getting to know people and creating a network of like-minded people is a valuable aid.

I have to agree, especially with this site...there seems to be more new people in the lifestyle than experienced since what I've read since I've joined...on line lifestyle can be discussed, get some experienced "stories" but RT is the only way you're going to know it's really for you.

Best of luck to you