has anyone ever met people online?
woodsman's game queries. Most of us have, yet first encountering in person seems more preferable.

As for body types, a fixation here with ungainly fat seems appropriate, given representative BDSM lifestyles. To this comes as one unfortunate fact as solid underpinnings of sex connected with the subculture are vanquished.

And then there is the issue of fatty minds.

when the lights are turned off
everwilling's observation points to the convenience of not knowing, nor caring, where the light switch is.
Note that seeing with eyes wide open can also increase one's pleasure.