[ i am not really new to bdsm. my Master, who is also my husband, and i have been delving into the lifestyle for about four years and are now ready to take it to the next level. i am here to learn how to be a better sub. i have always had the tendancy well before i married my husband, and four years ago i got the nerve up to ask him if he would explore this with me and he gladly agreed. i have a lot to learn.