hey den profound as ever, i agree fully it is down to each persons personal choice, and perspective, after all one mans freedom fighter is another's terrorist, it is horses for courses, what ever floats an individuals boat, there really is no right or wrong.

We all have different needs and desires thank god! lol the trick i guess is to realise this and respect each others wishes.

slaves, subs, doormats etc are but labels, often only used by those who fail to see for the lack of looking !

Good post though, it is good to stimulate such debates.