Thank you, I guess, lol.
Yes, f a s c i n a t i n g, isnt it, lol. Everything is still the same, yet everything has changed. How, you might wonder, have I managed to stay clueless? Well, yours truly is pukingly good, little wifey/subbie, lol. I would never do anything that would publicly embarrass Him or hurt Him privately. It sounds silly, I know, but I actually feel His pain more acutely than my own. It never even occurred to me to do something that He would find objectionable, at least not without discussing and notifying Him about it in advance. And we never really had such a strong disagreement where He would have put His foot down regardless of my opinion. And a lot of it, after everything we had went through to be together, just doesn't seem worth it.
My perspective on that is, there is a "doormat" and then there is a doormat.