I keep a great many things secret from my loved ones. To be honest, I'm not sure which would be scarier to tell them - that I'm transgendered, or that I fantasize about being someone's pet/slave XD I know that they would still *love* me, but I severely doubt that they would *understand* me. As nice as it would be to have it out in the open, I'm afraid of isolating myself from the people in my life, and I suppose they really don't have to know this kind of thing about me, really ^^''''