I am new to all of this type of internet communication. I spent years surfing my kinks from the closet and finally came out as submissive to my wife. She's a bit reluctant to jump right in to many of the types of play I've been fantasizing in but that's not unreasonable. My problem is that I’ve fed my submissiveness to the point that I have difficulty initiating intimate contact. She understands this and has accepted the aggressive role in that aspect of our physicality. She will play how she may and that will be enough.
I’m here seeking advice on how to help her in a non-aggressive way. I don’t want her overwhelmed and pressured into thinking she needs to act a specific way.