However (deep breath).... As a Dom, I crave control over submissive/slave type persons. There is a strong relationship between wanting to control others and the Dominant personality (duh). So, the real issue is, what (or who) is a control FREAK and who is a person interested in control and the interplay between those who seek it. It seems that the line that separates the freak from the just freaky is intent, or perhaps self-awareness. This issue perhaps, is strictly a semantic one with me. I love to control those who love to be controlled. Sometimes I'm a freak.
But this begs another question, and perhaps this thread is not appropriate: Is there an equal but opposite personality disorder that complements the 'control freak'?