I personally love anal. But, there are times that it's just not going to work. I have to be totally relaxed or the initial penetration is too much to bear. If I'm with a partner that isn't experienced with anal and he's trying to rush it, it's not going to work and I'll end up screaming at him to get out. It really does require some patience on the man's part for me. Just take it slow, let me get accustomed to it and it will be a great ride for all involved.