DJ, much thanks. I think you're right that I need to keep easing into things. The 'game's stage was set before actually just like you suggested. I made a nice dinner, roommates were gone, bottle of wine, candles etc. Presented the game as a sexy little surprise. It went well. I guess my problem is this. Easing into something like fisting or flogging is a bit daunting. Seems like it would take forever haha.

You're right that now is the best time... good point that I hadn't considered. I'll keep at it.