The "Interview" Process!

[angelic.zest]

Finding a compatible relationship, regardless of what style, is all about seeing if there's chemistry... and yes, through questions we discover answers and commonalities.

totally agree, i try to come into all relationships be it d/s or vanilla with the same mind same, abit different for d/s but mostly there has to be a foundation of something there, and then we move on to the heavier quesitions.

its good to know where someone head is when ur trying to look for a S.O.
some submissive may not know the type of questions to ask, which is why i posted...found it on another forums, that someone started the thread and most of the replies have the same or simular questions posted above.

I would suggest you just talk, have conversations, and let the topics come and go naturally. You'll both learn more that way...

And don't shy away from 'vanilla' topics. You should find each other interesting over and above your shared kinks.

questions like "whats your favorite color?" giggles