In my conversations with various dominants, i have come across a few you say you aren't a real submissive or slave unless you do ....
I wholeheartedly agree with everyone who has posted previously to me, that a D/s relationship is a relationship. And there is a strong element of romance and caring that exists between a Master and his submissive. It is reckless to disregard a submissive needs after a intense scene. A Good Master stops and evaluates the submissive needs after a scene, could be the submissive needs to be carried, or cooked for or even just told I am proud of you.