My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years now, I've dropped hints but I'm super shy so its hard for me to initiate things. I mean it took me 4 and half years to get up the courage to drop a hint. I've been interested in the lifestyle since I was about 16 and found out what it was. One of the things that drew me to my boyfriend was his dominant personality. I'm so glad this was posted because its kind of given me a little more confidence to talk to him about it. I guess for me it just makes it easier when I read that someone else is in a similar situation. Anyways, thanks you guys