I think your mistress is sadly mistaken about having complete control. *lol* Adult babies act like babies. They aren't very submissive in the sense that they aren't humbly obedient but, in fact, very demanding....like a baby. Infantilism isn't so much about power and control as love and nurturing. Maybe you both need to do some research, or you could just show up dressed in nothing but a diaper and expect her to take care of your *every* need for the day. *eg*