How about :

- Choosing her wardrobe for an evening, Short skirt of dress, No panties Thigh Highs that are in and out of view under the hem. All this and a trip to the mall.. SHOE shoppping, where the saleman or woman as the case maybe, fits the shoes... AND you choose the styles..

Or

- Same senerio as above, but a different public venue, of your choice, with plenty of bending or stretching to reach items...

Or

- Command Performance - After performing a seductive strip tease, perhaps, provide some further visual stimulation, by having her masturbate for you. And as the name implies, Command performance.. watch as she apporaoches orgasm, and command her to Stop... and then allow her to resume after she has calmed a bit.. and then repeat.. 3 or 4 times... Frustrating, Yes, but when released, the orgasm should be intense.