My situation is somewhat unusual. In our home, I am the mistress and my husband is the sub, and it works very well for us. He enjoys the mind control, bondage, and moderate pain. However, when we are online with others, the roles reverse. He takes over the dom role, and exercises humiliation and obediance; while I fulfill my desires as a sub, taking pleasure in obediance, punishment and verbal abuse. Are there any others who have situations similar to my own?