the guys who talk to you like that bambina sound just like my sister! she will not bother with anyone who isnt black and the blacker the better.
not just partners but friendships too.
unfortunately she's what gets called over here a 'wigger' meaning a black wannabee (that is not meant to offend anyone people of all races use the term) she acts how she thinks a black person should act, wont listen to music unless the singers are blac,even sometimes talks in what she thinks is a jamaican accent and goes on about the ''culture'' repeatedly (apparantly ours isnt good enough) and anything/anyone white is simply not good enough either,which is worrying because her eldest child is white and her other mixed race who she has a definite preference for simply because of her colour.
she likes the idea of being as she puts it ''the trophy blonde princess''

she's in the minority admittedly but she's certainly not alone, for people like her its certainly not a fetish and not even a preference as to who and what she finds sexually attractive but a 'status' symbol, and that i dont think is right or even normal.
personally i cant understand why someone would only want to sleep with someone of a certain race...surely its the individual person you find attractive not skin colour?