Hi katie,
I totally agree with you. My friend caught her daughter (15) hiding her short skirts etc at another friends house and changing into them when she goes out ..
My point was that we can, only do so much as parents. Kids are small people with a mind of their own, and boy are they going to use it if they want to!
Me? I am the youngest of 5, and the only girl .. I brought more trouble/woe to my parents than my brothers did combined .. lol .. there was noooo way I would ever have listend to their wise words and adopt them as my own. Still, I survived, and turned out a pretty ok individual, even if I do say so myself .. lol