Thanks for clarifying... I hope you see how being imprecise can lead to misperceptions...
So on to the rest.
So those who commit to love... and stop loving...
Those who commit to honor... and stop honoring...
Those who commit to cherish... and stop cherishing...
That's all okay. And the person who sees all the other vows broken, who may have children to consider, who may not be financially ready to leave, who may even be abused... he or she is a selfish dog for looking for companionship?
Sorry but YOU, are empty of compassion.