Myself i am kinda strange, ive been known to actually punch a dom that trys to cuddle with me or fawn over me after the "act", especially if it was a really really hard session that put me deep into the zone, so I am not really kidding when i say "spooning" is my hard limit.

I need to be untied and free to pace for a while like a tyger in its cage (lol) as my owner calls it.

But see there, my owner knows this, he knows i freak out if i cant bring myself back from sub space, if i am pestered too much by a dom looming over me, trying to fetch and carry for me, i get kinda peeved. Not that i dont mind it at other times, oh yes especially when he is being romantic in those quaint everyday kinda ways, like doing the dishes, or vacuming the house while i was at work etc, (he works too but our hrs dont allways coincide) but after dominating the bejesus out of me, all i want is to have a smoke and get back right in my own head and refocus. I thank the stars my owner is so very preseptive and allows me this freedom.

If the dom wants to whisper sweet nothings in my ear and hold me its just got to be some other time.