Obedience training

[jeanne]

Dear R...,
first of all you have to feel free, to let your self belong to your master/dom completely. You have to enjoy serving him, pleasing him. Then it comes natural. Taken commands, rules, roles. Enjoying the rules, the role playing, offering both your body and your mind.

This is very true. Then it comes naturally.

Do not say I am "embarassed, I am not doing this", but "I am following you" in our erotic journey. Of course training is part of the "procedure", obedience is the key to achieve the training goal. Training goal might be everything, from learning how to react when being punished or to having a specific behaviour under some circumstances, or many other things...

When I think specifically of 'obedience training', I think of submissives who, as part of their submissiveness, fight. You know, for many, there is a need to fight, to be subdued, to be taken before 'giving in'...and obedience training is very helpful and useful in helping them settle into their submissive place. If that's what they want and need eventually, of course.