ive kind of had mixed feelings on this and it can become a bit of a touchy subject for me.
IH has always used the term slut whether it be in play fun or as a pet name and has always meant it in an endearing or sexual way and i always enjoyed it and have refferred to myself that way for certain things.
but as usual being different from the norm lol recently i have quite a bit of discomfort with it when its non-sexual, and can no longer do it,im just not comfortable with it anymore.
i feel like im insulting myself possibly even degrading myself and feel that it's true in the genuine definition of the word.
a while ago some-one found out about my 'bdsm' life and saw pics etc and used them against me for personal reasons and out of spite, as a result there was a period that i was getting called it by a few neighbours and ex-friends even a cpl of times when i went to pick my children up in the school playground..not a pleasant experience!
as a result it's now other than in the bedroom made something that was once special and made me feel good something thats insulting and makes me feel dirty and bad.
my fault for letting it but thats how it now is for me.