mmm yum. i also quite enjoy anal, and in my relationship its never ever been used as a 'real' punishment, although we do often play little games when I'm being a bit bratty and he threatens it - to which of course i just play up more!

The first time i did it though was in a backpackers hostel, in the toilets when we were both raging drunk and the guy i was with... uhm... missed the right hole. That wasnt a pleasant start. The second time was worse as well - i ended up bleeding from the chafing because we went too quickly.


But my current boyfriend and i went for 'third time lucky' and omg im SO glad we did!!! yum yum yumm!!!