I'm personally annoyed by that articles opinion. I'm far from insecure. Sure, there are things about myself I wish were better... but find me a single person in this country that feels different! I'm more often a leader than a follower. I tend to work in management, I'm organized and self reliant.

I think the biggest appeal of a Dom for me, is that I can let all that go. I can stop taking charge, and making decisions. I get to relax and just enjoy life for a while. I tend to be very attracted to Dominant men, but not generally in a sexual way. More often than not, I remain friends with them. While they are Dominant, they just aren't Dom enough to tame me.

Never really had that click untill my Dom. We have been friends for years. Then one day it just sorta all fit together. I realized how long he had been a Dom to me, and there was much more to our relationship than I had originally thought. Side note, I'm happier than I've ever been!