lol don't post with a hangover silly! *grins*

Anyway, I'll explain why it annoyed me so much.

Because I'm tired of the negative light that is shed upon submissive women. How nice would it be for me to be able to tell my family, or friends that I am what I am!? I can't. Why? Because over the years women as a whole have pushed so hard to be independent, strong willed, and dominant in the work force and in life. In doing so, they have pushed away from what they used to be. Until the last 50 or so years, women were submissive. It's just the way things were. Why is it so wrong for me to wish to live this way still? It isn't. I know it isn't. But the constant debates with feminists and your average vanilla is tiresome.

I could go on for days about the sociological aspects of this shift, but I'll shoosh so I don't bore everyone.

So basically, I'm tired to having a negative light shed on me because I choose to live my life in a way that is different from the 'stronger' women. So yes, that comment annoys me greatly. Not because I'm insecure, but because I'm strongly opinionated on this particular topic.


Quote Originally Posted by icey View Post
lol i wish id read it.
what i meant submissivedoll was i dont understand why it annoys you so personally, especially as a you're very secure woman, i can imagine someone more insecure being offended or annoyed even by it perhaps it makes them worry and wonder about themselves which very often insecure people do.
i would have thought that anyone knowing that statement not to be true, particularly for themselves would simply shrug it off as baseless and not take it so personally or be offended.

arghhh im not doing a good job saying what im trying to say,but i'll give the excuse that i only just got up and have a terrible hangover lol