i get sick of all that bs myself lol
but when people have those kind of debates and arguments about submissives about how women have fought against it, made us equal, and all the other usual guff.. i use the argument that yes they did and its thanks to those very women i now have the CHOICE as to the kind of r/ship i want, and that i also as a ''modern'' independant women in todays society have the confidence and the right to have my opinion heard also lol ...they dont like it as it's very difficult for them to dispute it without twisting back upon themselves

i guess thats one of the reasons it doesnt offend me lol cos i like to see them shoot themselves in the foot with their ''facts''