I can only speak for myself here –
There is something decidedly primal about a man overtaking a woman sexually.
He can rule my body, bend me to his rules and regulations, but I am still a free spirit and always will be. I’ve dated men that preferred to be dominated and for lack of a better word I found them to be “unmanly.” It dates back to the beginning of mankind. The strong, powerful men became fathers, and leaders. It’s basic animal instinct! I see a cocky self assured man and become INSTANTLY attracted to him. That doesn’t necessarily mean he’s a good guy, but I can’t resist. We all want the bad boys, the ones that pull our hair, spank us, and make us feel desired in a very primal way. They have to be self assured to do so. Low and behold, I decide to date “a good guy” for once…and he turns out to be a DOM!!! What were the odds? The bad boys who ruled me in the past, broke my heart. I was so tired of it I sought another form of man. In doing so stumbled upon the most dominate, loving, and sexually captivating man I’ve ever been with. So that being said, my whole point of view is one big oxymoron. I state, we’re attracted to DOMs on a primal note, yet I strayed from the stereotype and found the best man to rival my fantasies and then some. My points negate each other. In an attempt to make this become some what sensible I’ll say this: “ I’m marrying the good guy that has the strength to turn this independent, unruly, outspoken, and rebellious girl into a submissive.” I’m still all of these qualities, yet more tame, more wise, and a hell of a lot happier.