Welcome. It's nice to meet you.

Have you ever asked her if she's into any of this? Maybe tried a few things here and there? Maybe she is thinking the same things but is too scared to voice them. Or perhaps she has a latent desire she just hasn't had awakened yet? I really like MasterBaron's advice. *smiles* It might ignite a fire in your bedroom. At least, I am fanning myself. LOL!

Best of luck to you! There are tons of wonderful tools and people here to help you.