THe quote itself, stuff in the quote box, not in italics, is from a story I read, and some people I showed it too were having trouble understanding how I applied it to my relationships so I added the italics stuff.

Thanks for the comment and advice. I'm not judging all christians, just "societial" christians. A term I coined for christians, who like society, has the idea that in matters of preference ( relationship style, and other non-theoligical matters that the bible does not say one thing or another about as the ONLY way) that only one way, their "normal" is right.