haha! this is something IH and myself really disagree and have been know to have very loud discussions over many times lol
i personally do not believe we should change ourselves in the slightest, sure we all change to some degree over time but we shouldnt make ourselves change or expect others to change for us!
i am what and who i am and if somebody doesnt like me for that then tough they can go find someone else they either do like or who wants to change themselves!
i dont want to have to put on an act day in day out until it becomes (if im sucessful enough at it) a part of the ''changed'' me b****x to that.

would you want to have to force yourself to be or act in a way your naturally not? imagine the pressure how hard it would be, how confusing it would be both to yourself and others each time you slipped? and you would believe me!
maybe my logic is kind of twisted but i have a disorder which automatically makes me change each time to a degree to be the person im with or the persona that they expect me to be so the consequences for me personally to try to change me would be extremely damaging it would really throw me off balance,
so my reasoning is that because i kind of live my life that way anyway and i can assure you whilst thats me and how i am it's not always a walk in the park!..that ''normal'' people just couldnt do it in reality, being a ''chameleon'' and ''changing'' is what i am naturally..does any of this make sense to anyone? lol
i think people often mistake the idea of changing some habits or ways to fit in and adapt with people in their lives as changing themselves and the two are totally different things.