anal is a no no in my book. My frist anal expierence was HORRIBlE, granted i was young (15) but still it was H O R I B B L E. Fast-forward ( rewind, whichever) to about 1 year and a half ago and i was with my now ex-girlfriend, and she loved anal, so i would do it just becuase she liked it. And i still hated it then, i would cry, whine, throw a fit (mind you this wasnt a D/s relationship), make up reasons why i didnt want to do it. But in the end, i just DO NOT LIKE ANAL, fingers are okay, anything more then that, is definetly a hard limit. My straw hat goes off to all of you subs out there that just love anal, but for me its a no go. Period.

just my two cents