welcome
Quote Originally Posted by ladybugloved View Post
My marriage is rather equal as long as my husband thinks I am well behaved but when I push him to far then he is Master. I guess that means we are not fully a d/s couple but I think of him as my Master. I hope to learn a lot from the forum and find some info for him as well.
i have to ask why would equal in your marriage make your r/ship a not fully D/s one? of course you're both equal unless you choose to roleplay otherwise! even then you cant really keep it up 24/7 unless you want to live your life as a doormat,less worthy and deserving human being? of course i dont know you but im pretty sure your husband wouldnt want that, and you said yourself that when you push him too far he is ''Master'' im guessing thats when he gets 'strict' or more authorative? and when you're well behaved well isnt that you're behaving in the way that HE expects of you.being a Master doesnt mean he has to be giving orders,chastising you and generally being your keeper 24 hours a day a Master is also kind considerate caring thinks of your needs and sometimes ''serves'' his sub too
you make your r/ship work however suits you the best.