I am allways saying saftey first

this is ironic becuase my owner and I have no safe words at all

alltough i do reccomend safe words for new subs and masters (that is those that do not allready know each other inside and out)

My owner ussually asks me several times if all is well etc, sometimes however i am cuaght off guard or unprepared for my "use"

One overt signial to my owner that i am not ready or somthing needs to be discussed first is when i am kneeling and i place my palms down as opposed to up on my thighs.

If an extreme emergency crops up during my "Use" I would use rappid blinking and if my hand is free, i would tap out (like in wresteling) or make or do someother gesture or movement to signal him somthing is amiss or out of straights

Fortunately he is so attentive that i have never had the need to initiate a stop to whatever we have been doing at the time.