It seems a lot of Rpers are only interested in smut... a quick get off and release. They dont bother get into character therefore find using first person disturbing. Some use the same names over and over again, changing detail just enough to fit with the story. It becomes apparent they really dont care.

Personally I typically write in third person because most people I have talked with wont play in first. I find that in third person I have more control of the character were in first person the character has more control of me. But that is just me.....