Hi, I am someone who enjoys being submissive but am not sure how much of my life I want it to infiltrate. A recent bf says I am a switch, I'm not sure about that myself. What I am trying to work out is how many of my fantasies I want to become realities. I have a bf now who is definitely dom and who likes to control me in sex which I enjoy, but I also enjoy vanilla sex and cuddles too.

Also I just left a marriage after 8 years which had almost no sex and am rampantly rediscovering my libido!

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