Good Evening, new to D/s life, amongst other things

[AdrianaAurora]

1. As a Dom, I realize I need to find myself so to speak, but for working through self-confidence problems, like worry's if Im doing a good job and such, how would I go about dealing with that.

I am going to answer only the first question, because thats the only thing I have experience with, but I am sure there are others here who can help with the second part.

You need to find yourself because you are 20. The cure for that, as well as self-assurance, is time and learning. And patience.

Worrying if you are doing a good job is a sign of a good Dom and a person who cares. It is not a sign of weakness, but assurance to your sub that she can trust you with herself.

Welcome to the Library,